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Chief Bridesmaid

The term "Chief Bridesmaid" is the title given to a sister or close friend. If the sister, or close friend, is married then the title "Matron of Honor" is used. It is also used if the bride is a widow and/or re-marrying. It is an honour to be asked. Always to prepared, particularly for large weddings, to put time aside to spend with the bride.

Chief Bridesmaid As chief bridesmaid you will be called upon to:

Prior to the wedding:

- arrange pre-wedding activities with the bride and groom to introduce the guests to each other
- arrange the “Hens” night
- look after all the other bridesmaids, flower girls and pageboys
- assist the bride to choose her wedding dress
- discuss the bridesmaid’s dress(s), especially if being made, and clarify who is paying
- attend dress fittings
- attend any wedding rehearsals
- collect any hired clothing and accessories

On the wedding day:

- ensure the bouquets are ready for the bride and bridal party
- have your hair and make-up done, and dress
- assist the bride with her hair, make-up and dress
- help the bridal party and give them their final instructions
- have pre-wedding photographs at home
- leave for the wedding ceremony 10 minutes prior to the bride

At the ceremony:

- arrange the bride’s dress, veil and train
- have final pre-wedding photographs outside the ceremony’s venue
- follow the bride and father up the aisle
- hold the bride’s bouquet during the wedding ceremony
- witness the signing of the register, if required
- follow the bride and groom down the aisle accompanied by the best man
- ensure junior bridesmaids, flower girl, pageboy, are return to their parents/guardians
- touch up the bride’s make-up for further photographs
- depart for the wedding reception

At the wedding reception:

- stand in the receiving line and greet the guests
- help display and record gifts given to the bride and groom
- distribute slices of wedding cake to guests
- have the first dance, after the bride and groom, with the best man
- help the bride change into her “going away” outfit
- take care of the bride’s dress and accessories if required

After the wedding:

- return any hired clothing and accessories

Chief Bridesmaid Dresses and Wedding Gowns


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