Chief Bridesmaid

The term "Chief Bridesmaid" is the title given to a sister or close friend. If the sister, or close friend, is married then the title "Matron of Honor" is used. It is also used if the bride is a widow and/or re-marrying. It is an honour to be asked. Always to prepared, particularly for large weddings, to put time aside to spend with the bride.

As chief bridesmaid you will be called upon to:

Prior to the wedding:
- arrange pre-wedding activities with the bride and groom to introduce the guests to each other
- arrange the “Hens” night
- look after all the other bridesmaids, flower girls and pageboys
- assist the bride to choose her wedding dress
- discuss the bridesmaid’s dress(s), especially if being made, and clarify who is paying
- attend dress fittings
- attend any wedding rehearsals
- collect any hired clothing and accessories

On the wedding day:
- ensure the bouquets are ready for the bride and bridal party
- have your hair and make-up done, and dress
- assist the bride with her hair, make-up and dress
- help the bridal party and give them their final instructions
- have pre-wedding photographs at home
- leave for the wedding ceremony 10 minutes prior to the bride

At the ceremony:
- arrange the bride’s dress, veil and train
- have final pre-wedding photographs outside the ceremony’s venue
- follow the bride and father up the aisle
- hold the bride’s bouquet during the wedding ceremony
- witness the signing of the register, if required
- follow the bride and groom down the aisle accompanied by the best man
- ensure junior bridesmaids, flower girl, pageboy, are return to their parents/guardians
- touch up the bride’s make-up for further photographs
- depart for the wedding reception

At the wedding reception:
- stand in the receiving line and greet the guests
- help display and record gifts given to the bride and groom
- distribute slices of wedding cake to guests
- have the first dance, after the bride and groom, with the best man
- help the bride change into her “going away” outfit
- take care of the bride’s dress and accessories if required

After the wedding:
- return any hired clothing and accessories Chief Bridesmaid